Things I've learned from my Wife

The list of things I have learned from my wife, would be endless, so I am going to try to just post some of them here. I am one who believes that some good can be found in the worst people. You can learn something from your enemies and every cloud has a silver lining. This being said, we should be able to learn loads of important things from our life partner, soul mate and best friend. Here are some of the things I've learned from my amazing wife.

Be Free

My wife is the most free spirited person I have ever met. She just simply will not be held down by the stresses of life that bother the rest of us. She awakes with a smile and dances through her day. Schedules always take a back seat to enjoying her family and just being free.

Be Child Like without being childish

My lovely wife has a child like outlook on things. My Wife never lets the future interrupt the enjoyment she is having now. She looks at the big picture with a child like sense of wanderlust and finds the good no matter the bad. She finds no bad in people and enters into every friendship fully trusting and genuinely believing that people are good ! She never fears a broken heart and plunges into every category of love in the same way..... with her whole heart !

Beauty is NOT skin deep

Beauty begins in a kind, loving heart and radiates outwardly until it encompasses all that are touched by it. My wife is the most beautiful woman, I have ever seen and it's not just her outward beauty that I refer to. On her worst day, her kind loving heart shines through. Outwardly she is stunning but, it's her beautiful spirit that will keep her beautiful forever. For to know her is to Love her !

Forget about social class or anything else that hinders loving people

My wife doesn't see any difference in the rich or the poor, she only sees people. She will treat you as a friend whether she's known you for years or just met you. To her whether your rich or poor, you will be treated as family.

Understand that people are important and should be remembered

My wife remembers the names of everybody she meets and if you give her time she will memorize your birthday and anniversary too. Is it because she has a great memory and is just uncanny in the memory department ? No ! It's because to her, you are important enough to remember.

I'll stop this one here for now. But, walk away with this.... try to learn from those around you and Love ! That's right, just Love ! Love people, Love situations, and Love life !

Optimism from a Clint Eastwood kind of perspective.

I haven't been sick in a while, but now it has happened. I have gotten some sort of sore throat upper respiratory thing going on. It hasn't left me feeling too bad, but I can scarcely talk on account of it. As I sat at my computer wondering what my next blog should be and trying to convince myself that being "sick" was not a good reason to not blog, it hit me.

Maybe it was the raspy voice that I have now, I'm not sure, but I decided that it was about time to look at our optimistic journey from a more take charge kind of source. I decided Clint Eastwood would be a fine start. I don't really mean just his characters in movies though, although they sure were no nonsense take charge kind of guys. I may expand into some other action stars in the future as well so stay tuned.

I don't believe in pessimism. If something doesn't come up the way you want, forge ahead. If you think it's going to rain, it will. Clint Eastwood

I really think about this one a lot. The more I think about this, the more I realize it's truth. Not that I'm incredibly successful, or never a pessimist. It's just that I look around and notice that everyone who is a success seems to have dove in without a negative thought in their heads. The idea of failure never crossed their minds and the things most of us call failure seems to be a mere bump in the road to them. This is the kind of take charge never give up attitude we need to develop. You can do it. Doing it is not the question, it's "HOW" ?

I've never met a genius. A genius to me is someone who does well at something he hates. Anybody can do well at something he loves - it's just a question of finding the subject.

Clint Eastwood

Here you have the same kind of thing, it's not can you succeed. It's how and doing what ??

If you want a guarantee, buy a toaster.

Clint Eastwood

Respect your efforts, respect yourself. Self-respect leads to self-discipline. When you have both firmly under your belt, that's real power.

Clint Eastwood

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands. Clint Eastwood

These are just a few and I'm sure there are plenty of other good ones out there. Just remember you CAN do it. Don't give up on your dreams take charge with a positive attitude and unwavering resolve. Then just decide how ?

The Good News

The good news for today.......

Where do I begin ? I had the day off, and awoke to a fire roaring in the fireplace. I immediately crawled onto the couch and cuddled with my wonderful wife. We reminisced of days gone by. We talked about times in the early days of our relationship when we had enjoyed, great time in each others arms. We watched our kids play and enjoyed the morning.

The fire warmed the house from the inside as the sun was busy warming it from the outside and pretty soon the house was warm enough to begin our day. We just mostly enjoyed each others company and did some school with the kids all morning. We are really pushing the reading area right now. They have been working hard on phonics and now we've reached a place where some serious application is in order. This said, the kids spent most of their morning taking turns reading Amelia Bedelia to Mommy and Daddy. "They are getting pretty good at it too."

When the time came we got ready and headed to town. Not the tiny one that we live in, but to the big city miles away. Our day finished late and as you can see mine still isn't complete.

I usually don't blog much about my personal stuff, but this is an exception. Today was great and my day was great enough for you to be happy too. That's a joke, but seriously it was a great day.

Today I thought I'd post some headlines from different news sources and what is good about them. So here it goes.......

Woman calls 911 to report herself as drunk driver

This is actually a great story. They kind of jam it in there on most news sites as just another sad or strange headline, but if you'll take a breath and think about the implications here, I'm sure you'll see the good. It's not often that this kind of thing happens. Let's face it, when you've had to many to drink, you become ten feet tall and bullet proof and driving doesn't seem like a bad idea. So the fact that this lady pulled it together enough to realize she didn't need to be behind the wheel is a miracle. Especially at a whopping two times the limit..... She managed to phone the police while driving and tell them she was drunk and she did this without having an accident. WOW !!

The only bad news here is they charged her anyway. Way to encourage this kind of behaviour. The rest of this story is a big thumbs up.

Saints stay perfect with 35-27 win over Falcons

Sports fan or not you have got to admit we all enjoy rooting for the under dog and the New Orleans Saints have always been the under dog. They are the closest thing to a pro team many of us southerners have. From Louisiana to Mississippi across to Alabama lots of southerners consider the saints their team. Even the ones like me who never follows football. So to see these guys remain undefeated is good news, even if you aren't a fan. Maybe they will make it to the Super Bowl this year, without buying tickets. After Katrina ravaged New Orleans several years ago leading to the city ongoing recovery, a win like that would sure be great news for New Orleans and those of us who like to see the good guys finish first.

82 healthy sea turtles hatch at San Diego SeaWorld

Great news !!

Inspiration from Dr. Suess

Dr. Suess,

Ah the things that we have all learned from the great Dr. Suess. As children we read his amazing books. They were funny. They were well versed and flowed off our tongues and into our ears. The whimsical ideas and thoughts produced, stayed with us and shaped the adults that we have become. Yet, when we become adults we start to think that we can no longer benefit from childish things. I think this is wrong. I know that if we still look at things with a childlike faith and sense of wonder we can have adventures unimaginable. That being said, here is some inspiration from the Doctor who can heal this virus called being an adult..... Dr. Suess !!

A person's a person, no matter how small.-- Dr. Seuss

Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.-- Dr. Seuss

Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.-- Dr. Seuss

I like nonsense, it wakes up the brain cells. Fantasy is a necessary ingredient in living, It's a way of looking at life through the wrong end of a telescope. Which is what I do, And that enables you to laugh at life's realities.-- Dr. Seuss

Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.-- Dr. Seuss

Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not.-- Dr. Seuss

Dr. Suess was rejected 27 times before his children's books were accepted by editors. This is the kind of persistence that we should all have. If you believe in your vision and stick with it you can make it work.

"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who'll decide where to go..." — Dr. Seuss

"Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, Nothing is going to get better. It's not." Dr. Seuss

Wisdom from Alice in Wonderland

Here are a few quotes from Lewis Carol's, Alice in Wonderland. I know that we have all either read this book or seen the cartoon, but if you look at the deeper life application here, I think you'll find it quite brilliant.



The Duchess: Tut, tut, child! Everything's got a moral, if only you can find it.



Alice: I wonder if I've been changed in the night? Let me think. Was I the same when I got up this morning? I almost think I can remember feeling a little different. But if I'm not the same, the next question is 'Who in the world am I?' Ah, that's the great puzzle!



The King: Begin at the beginning and go on till you come to the end: then stop.



Alice: But then, shall I never get any older than I am now? That'll be a comfort, one way -- never to be an old woman -- but then -- always to have lessons to learn!



Alice: It would be so nice if something made sense for a change.



Doorknob: Read the directions and directly you will be directed in the right direction.

Good News !!

The good news is I am starting a new blog. Well, that's the good news, so far. The idea is to have a blog with less depth than other blogs. Less depth than MY other blog. This will be a blog of short uplifting posts. Maybe quotes from famous people. Maybe some jokes. Maybe just a piece of good news. I hope to also look at current events in a more positive way. It's a simple idea I had, to provide something uplifting for everyone, but especially those who aren't big readers. This will be your one stop, for something to raise your spirits. Somewhere to go, when you need a laugh or a smile. Hopefully I'll post things often, maybe even everyday, if I get the followers. I hope you will enjoy !!